The Birth of Venus When does sex become dirty? After the orgy when you see pictures of your mother holding you in your white lace gown at the altar rail, bishop dabbing your forehead, declaring you a child of Christ baptized, buried, risen with him. Does it happen when you notice a woman, admit you want to lick her labia, cup her upright tits, suck her nipples, knowing you are a woman too? © Georgia Ann Banks-Martin